After checking on the things you guys pointed out for me here's the plan:
BDS 3" lift.
Everything I've been researching was on this lift and I plan on staying with this height for a very long time so the lifetime no questions asked warranty works for me.
33x10.5x15 BFG AT on my stock Ravines.
If I went 12.5 the tires would be more expensive and I'd need to buy wheels too. With the 10.5 I still get the look I want and I can swap wheels and tires at a later date if I don't like this setup.
Hopefully I won't have any vibration problems after the lift. If I do, Krawler I'll be callin ya.
Thanks for the help guys. Pics of the end result will be posted.
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