Been going to Chops for over 15 years... it is fab.
Try McKendricks at Perimeter. Closer, and I think some items are better, like the hand rubbed aged ribeye. Had one last week and a taste of the Lobster Mac. Started with a Caprese that was over the top. Pricey but don't go there if it's an issue. Wife had Lobster and Shrimp. We mixed it up for the ultimate.
Took all my girls out to dinner for V. They wanted Mexican. Cabo's was delicious. Lalancha.
I also practice the "Flowers and Gifts ONLY at unexpected moments" method, and I always present a hand written well thought out card on the Bday, Anniversary, and Christmas. Dinner out is ALWAYS a winner. Gifts that show you were listening are the all time winner.