I'm not sure I have any advice for you Kent.
My wife likes the jeep and likes to ride in it but does not like to trail ride or rock crawl....she never comes on our rides which is ok with me and its ok with her. She does complain about it being hard to get in as well and that I should get a "step" for it. I have not overcome that request but I have managed to ignore it for quite a few years. I am pretty sure she knows she is not getting the "step".
I do know for a fact that my wife is sick of hearing me talk about selling my jeep to get an LJ. She is also sick of hearing my complain about why a a person named "John"
@jd30005 won't trade jeeps with me.
As with John....my wife doesn't complain about what I do or spend on the jeep and, in turn, I don't complain about what she wants to do as far as a vacation or stuff around the house. Check that...I don't complain to her. I may vent a little to others as we discuss world issues at Taco Mac but that is promised to be held a secret.