This is the reason there are more than one club in the world. I have left other clubs because of bashing and hurt feelings (some my own), but IMHO if the coolaid aint for you, dont drink it. its that simple. Same reason most of us dont jump on Hardline and Pirate and act like we know all.
I know the forums are what keep the clubs together, but the rides are where we all have to put our money where our mouth is and just enjoy being out of work ..